How  mind game that makes you run away for those things  what you can’t have

This could  be the reason why we pursue things that can’t be achieved or difficult for us to achieve. Do you  always feel like that you’re always going after or chasing  something you can’t have? The more someone pulls away you from that thing, the more you end up in wanting them or your desires get excited or you become anxious. This is caused due to following factors: our vanity and self-esteem, and also due to our warped sense of their value. In reality and actuality, their perceived value is all in your head or mind, and you’re better off pursuing people who actually respect you and considered you  enough to be honest.

Erika Ettin, the founder of a leading dating website, hasher own theory for why we behave this way.  “ The less someone responds or reciprocates to one’s advances, the perceived value the pursuer thinks this person has,” she said.

If someone is busy and does not have tme for us, our minds can go into over drive thinking that  those persons  must be spending time with other people not with us.  They are obviously  more popular, so something primal or fixed in our brain that  make us think that they are more valuable than they really are.

In fact, Ettin also said by her research, “often this means we start to place more value on the other person than we do on ourselves. When you like someone, the brain releases the hormone dopamine. You can get hooked on this happy hormone, and start chasing the high, like a drug. This makes one susceptible to bread crumbing. When someone texts or calls on a sporadic basis, normally because they know you will respond.”

It can always be used as a  temptation for one  falling for the thrill of this chase of mind games. But if you can pull yourself  successfully away, you are likely to save yourself a lot of heartache or bodily pain in the end.












How using  wet wipes can make your babies sick

Using Wet wipes could be  a cause in putting babies at the risk of allergic reactions in human body  by creating a breach and cuts in the skin’s natural protective coat which  makes it more sensitive and vulnerable  to unusual chemicals, this is what a study has found in united states of America. US researchers hailed  and reached a “major advance in our allergy understanding” after results  showing that they or babies  can develop after repeat skin contact in an area where soaps have stripped the natural oils from the skin. If wet wipe residues are not rinsed off in better way, babies are then vulnerable to absorb allergy causing chemicals. Even  when they’re picked up or touched, the authors said and concluded. This is particularly true for  small children who already have a genetic predisposition for developing allergies  and have hereditary effects if allergy. These  are also linked with conditions like eczema, which affects a third part of childhood allergy sufferers. The findings are also  helpful  in explaining how food allergies, an extreme immune response to harmless substances. It further shows how allergies  start and why allergy rates have increased nearly 20% in countries  developed  like the US in the past 20 years.

“This is a recipe for developing a food allergy,” said the study’s lead author, Joan Cook Mills, a professor of allergy immunology at North western University. “It’s a major advance in our understanding of how a food allergy starts early in life.”  He further concluded that the cause of Eczema is  when genetic mutations disrupt some of the proteins  which are embedded in the skin that create the barrier effect. But in a test in baby mice with these eczema mutations show that only  exposure to peanuts alone wasn’t enough to cause an allergy in later life.

After reading about more  studies where drugs were delivered through the skin using soap to break down the harrier, professor Cook Mills said: “I thought, ‘oh my gosh! That’s infant wipes!.” Repeating the experiment, the study  team first applied sodium lauryl sulphate, a common soap also found in wet wipes, to the mice’s skin before exposing them to common food and other allergens. They were given three or four times  skin exposures in a two week period, and were  also then given egg or peanut to eat. The researchers found the mice developed a rash at the skin exposure actions and body-wide anaphylaxis which was a shocked  response in serious allergies.

The wet wipe effect could be related  to the skin barrier breakdown with a mild rash or bad eczema, and professor Cook-Mills said “parents should go back to older ways of washing infants. Reduce baby’s skin exposure to the food allergens by washing your hands before handling the baby by and limit use of infant wipes that leave soap on the skin.”